You don’t have to ever get over it as long as you continue living the best life you can. I understand where you’re coming from, but hey? Why is saying “I’m sorry” so bad? Don’t turn on the people who are trying to help you; changing the words to say the same thing won’t make any difference.
- And I heard the phase “you’re so strong, you’ll be fine” by a woman who thought she was saying the right things, but he wasn’t even cold yet.
- She was a nice woman, but her husband thought she was nuts and left her after that.
- Can you imagine finding out your son inlaw just wed a young girl before your dead relative even has time to grow grass on her grave.
- You taught me many things good and bad.
I wonder if you experienced any of that before your family member even died. This may add the differences you experience now as a griever. My dad passed away earlier this year. He had been mentally abusive to my mum for years and I seriously hated him.
Don’t Let People Miss On A Great Quote From The „batman“ Movie
But if I could bring it up, I guess I would tell her I’m sorry I disappointed her. When I was younger, my mom died of cancer, and it made me scared. I didn’t really understand what was going on then, so I dismissed it as me being annoying and swingout dance stupid. It had been a while since my mom had passed and none of this stuff had happened before. I’m getting over it now, but it’s still hard for me to not worry anymore. I feel like its bad karma to be so cheerful at someone’s passing and she was truely in pain if cancer took her life, so i know she suffered which isn’t something i would ever wish .
I Make Art Until Someone Dies
I had that visualization that brought me into the grieving and the acceptance, and it really felt like it prepared me for when it really happened. I’m not sure how to explain it any better than that, but I realized what the impact of that visualization had on me only after he really died. Because when I found out the news that he was gone, I wasn’t sad. And one day, I think I was in a Panera Bread, I got a phone call from him and he sounded better than ever.
It’s June 2022 and I’ve just seen your reply. It happened because I was looking for something and saw my post advertised when I clicked on it it brought me here and to your answer. It really was good and I’ve only just seen it.
I hope he gets over and wakes up in a while and comes to his senses. It’s like he’s another person entirely…the guy who was married to and loved Ramona and now this new guy who has publicly trashed that memory by waxing rhapsodic about a young girl. You are my hero, I think it is safe to say that there is little doubt as to what you are…keep up the good work.
Our Hopes And Dreams Vanish
You close your eyes and you imagine they’re there. Lots of feelings of regret can come up, wishing you could have done something else, and maybe thinking you should have done something else. How often does that happen in our lives, where we regret all the things we didn’t do. It was more beating myself up than grieving.